Let the Little Things Go

(k... day two and Im really proud of myself for being able to even log in without my neices help! ..Im really excited..jussayin)
Before Jim and I got maried, one of the best things that someone told me is to "Let the little things go..."
I was in" Bride Heaven" totally oblivious to what marriage was REALLY about- but hey- doesnt EVERYONE have the reception on their mind ? ...ur lyin.... Anywho, when she told me this, I was thinking     like "Oh Jim and I wont fight ...We Love eachother!!! blah blah blah.... ICK! Never gave it another thought....til l we got married.
For me , it is very very hard to let things go-meaning peoples actions and or words..or even seeing someone treat someone wrong or unfair. Jim and I didnt live together before we were married, so WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wake up call!  I had so many lil thing that I should just "let go" but no way! I was a very "dominant, get my point across even if your Helen Keller!!",  kind of person! I will let it be known that your "little thing" bothered me, then Im gonna hold it over your head!
 Hey - that got me real far...NOT.
So as time went on, I did let them go.....kinda...sorta.... Anywho, didnt last long cause then we had kids...(thats a WHOLE DIFFERENT BALLGAME  and that is ALOT of "little things to let go"!!!!!!So we wont even go there..plus I have too many scars on my lip FROM BITING IT SO MUCH!!!)  Carry on..over the years I started learning really what the little things were, and eventually picked and chose what to be upset over. And it has worked... Jim is a much better trained husband now..BAHAHA ONLY KIDDING! Seriously tho, we both learned.
I obtained a job as a claims Representative, for an Insurance Company. It really opened my eyes how people can really be over such "little things" For instance.. Bad Accident, injuries, someone  totaled  their car-we tell them the value -they ask "Did you include my leather steering wheel cover?" SERIOUSLY?? Uhhh- NO LEATHER TUSCADARO...not to be mean there but ummm-it was added on to the vehicle ..and if there was coverage.....u would get $2.50 for it!!  No lie-response "Well can u look and see if I can get that reimbursement"? Oh. My. Stars.
When you start to really look at what matters its almost hysterical some of the little things people wont let go,,,or need to say (for no reason whatsoever)
Today I had to get Bloodwork done ..elder gentleman next to me having blood drawn as well. He begins to talk to the nurse and the nurse called his doctor a she. He immediatley corrected her by saying "IT IS A HE IF YOU SHOULD HAVE TO KNOW"??? Like Seriously..why? why respond like that? Cant ya just lookover that and continue the conversation nicely as she was? (Specially when shes got the needle in your arm dude...jussayin...) Then I had to go to Lanc County Dept of Welfare to renew Alisons benefits. And....whadya know...someone is in their chair making sure the NEIGHBORS heard  her signs and complaints about how she waited for an 1/2 hr so far..Seriously? Do you have a lunch appt with the Pope? Cant ya just sit back and  chill for a bit?
 Im not saying I dont have my comments as well, personally  I cant stand when peoplewhile crossing the street in front of me think  its Disneyworld...looking around...I have a time or two..three.."reminded them " out my window that this isnt disney and get goin..So yeah- got faults
 But thru this, things like that ya just gotta accept period! Im in a place right now where "My meal on my plate is anxiety with a side of depression " cause for so long, I fell back into the trap of not letting little things go-Its time I do, and thinkin alot more peole need to do so as well... So next time someone flys by you while driving- try giving them the benefit of the doubt..maybe their kid is hurt, maybe their child is being born...whatever it is, its really has nothing to do with  YOUR world...so consider it a lil thing and let it go.Well, not gonna lie..if I see someone being treated unfair...lil bit still comes out...I speak my mind,, but HEY! THATS ME!  I "politelyask them to refrain from their negitive remarks and that they should apologize to that individual for the way they treated them" ...there-hows that?
Dont leave any negitive comments on here- worlds got enough negitivity already- PEACEOUT!